HOW CAN YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT, IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT?

A woman I used to work with always used to say " ask and you shall receive"... and the thing is, she did always get what she wanted.

One day she came to work with her "vision board" and it had a picture of herself cut out and pasted in front of this big house that was for sale, and a cut our picture of her family pasted in , and a nice car and boat in the driveway...

And we all made fun of her. But whos lauging now, as they wake up in the morning in their dream house, and get in their car and drive to the lake and spend the day on their boat?

LESSON LEARNED:
Being Clear About DesiresGetting What We Want
The best way to get what we want from life is to first know what we want. If we haven’t taken the time to really understand and identify what would truly make us happy, we won’t be able to ask for it from those around us or from the universe. We may not even be able to recognize it once it arrives. Once we are clear about what we want, we can communicate it to those around us. When we can be honest about who we are and what we want, there is no need to demand, be rude or aggressive, or manipulate others that are involved in helping us get what we want. Instead, we know that we are transmitting a signal on the right frequency to bring all that we desire into our experience. As the world evolves, humanity is learning to work from the heart. We may have been taught that the way to get what we want is to follow certain rules, play particular games, or even engage in acts that use less than our highest integrity. The only rules we need to apply are those of intention and connection. In terms of energy, we can see that it takes a lot of energy to keep up a false front or act in a way that is counter to our true nature, but much less energy is expended when we can just be and enjoy connections that energize us in return. Then our energy can be directed toward living the life we want right now. Society has certain expectations of behavior and the roles each of us should play, but as spiritual beings we are not bound by these superficial structures unless we choose to accept them. Instead, we can listen to our hearts and follow what we know to be true and meaningful for us. In doing so, we will find others who have chosen the same path. It can be easy to get caught up in following goals that appear to be what we want, but when we pursue the underlying value, we are certain to stay on our right path and continue to feed our soul. DAILY OM

ASK ABOUT THE SECRETE TO THE SECRETE.

IT WORKS. LEARN TO MANIFEST YOUR THOUGHTS INTO ACTIONS

ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCT

We have all heard the saying before..."go with your gut"

I tell people all the time to trus their gut instinct.

Every time I have had that "gut geeling" that somethign just wasnt right.... it turns out it wasnt.
and I end up saying " I knew it" or "i should have would have could have "

So that has been a major lesson in life for me, trusting myself and my instincts,..."going with my gut" and then actually acting on that instinct.

Today I have been kicking around a little bit of a life change situation idea, that has actually beenlingering in my mind and then today I realized, I need to trust my instincs... I know what is right....
so I find it very approptiate that todays Daily Om Lesson is Cleansing Your Power CenterTrusting Your Gut.

Gut feelings earn their name from the place in the body where they make themselves known. A pang in your gut when you may be doing the wrong thing, or a vibrant zing when your body approves, can guide you reliably at times when logic fails. Sometimes, when logic prevails, we ignore our gut and live to regret it, understanding later that a rational approach is only one way of determining what is going on in a situation and how we should react. Our gut resides in the neighborhood of our solar plexus and the third chakra just above your belly button. When it is functioning well, we can trust its guidance and adjust our actions accordingly. Many of us have a tendency to hold in this area of our bodies. We may take shallow breaths that never reach this vital nexus that is the source of our empowerment. It is in this place that we find the courage to act, to reach out into the world and create change. When our power center is out of balance, we are timid and out of sync, wishing we had said something we were only able to phrase later when we were alone; wishing we had acted on an opportunity we didn’t see until it was past. In order to utilize your power center, you may want to focus your attention on it more regularly and make time to care for it. You can begin right now by taking a deep breath into your belly. On the exhale, pull your navel in toward your spine so as to empty out completely before taking another deep breath into your belly. When you empty completely, you release stagnant energy and create more space to be filled with fresh, nourishing breath. The more you practice this simple, cleansing exercise, the more clear and communicative your gut feelings will be and the more comfortable you will feel acting on them.

ABUNDANCE. BRING IT ON

The more we see the blessings, the more abundant we feel, and the more blessings we attract.

Similarly, if we see lack, we tend to create and attract that energy.

Take a few minutes every day to count your blessing and everything you have to be grateful for.

maybe make a list for yourslef and carry it around with you... throughout the day, you can remind yourself of everything you have, and smile knowing you are manifesting more good things to come.

TODYAS LESSON. CREATE ABUNDANCE

here is what i learned today about Transforming a Misperception

We all know what it feels like to want something we don’t have.

It may be a pair of expensive jeans, a romantic partner, or rent money; it may be a certain attitude, a car, or a savings account.

This is part of life, and in the best-case scenario, we experience a constant flow of money and material possessions, companions and experiences, in and out of our lives.

However, many of us linger in a state of wanting and not having, a state of lack that never seems to subside.

We consistently perceive ourselves as not having what we need or not having what we want.

This is an energetically draining state to be in. It is also self-perpetuating because how we feel about ourselves determines what we are able to create for ourselves.

How we feel profoundly influences how we perceive our reality. When we feel we are lacking, we look around and see what is not there. On the other hand, if we feel abundant, we can look at the very same situation and see a completely different picture, one full of blessings and advantages.

The more we see the blessings, the more abundant we feel, and the more blessings we attract. Similarly, if we see lack, we tend to create and attract that energy.

If you find yourself habitually residing in a feeling of lack, it may be due to a core belief formed in your childhood or even in a past life. It may be because you are out of touch with your inner divinity, which is the source of your abundance. In any case, know that your perception of lack is a misperception that can be corrected with awareness and effort.

It can be as simple as taking 10 or 15 minutes each day to quiet your mind and imagine yourself in a state of unlimited abundance, handling the financial demands and others in your life with total ease, drawing from an endless supply of resources.

Know that it is your birthright to be fully supported in the fulfillment of your needs and desires.

YOUR LIFE IS A MANIFESTATION OF YORU MIND

Your life is a manifestation of your mind..............
so use your thoughts wisely.

Did you ever notice how when you think to yourself,

"i hope this doesnt happen-- i hope this doesnt happen"

it always happens???

you can learn how to make the things you want happen... and never even have a second thought about the things you dont want. try it out and let me know what you think.

It's the secrete to the secrete.

try it out and let me know what you think

Tips for the day

1. Faith is the ability to not panic.
2. If you worry, you didn't pray. If you prayed, don't worry. 3.
As a child of Universe, prayer is kinda like calling home every day.
4. Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.
5. Do the math. Count your blessings.
6. The Universe wants spiritual fruit, not religious nuts.
7. Silence is often misinterpreted, but never misquoted.
8. Laugh every day - it's like inner jogging.
9. The most important things in your home are the people.
10. There is no key to happiness. The door is always open. Come on in.
11. A grudge is a heavy thing to carry.
12. He who dies with the most toys is still dead.
13. It's all right to sit on your pity pot every now and again. Just be sure to flush when you are done.
14. Surviving and living your life successfully requires courage. The goals and dreams you're seeking require courage and risk-taking. Learn from the turtle, it only makes progress when it sticks out its neck.
15. Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF

THE HARDEST LESSON TO LEARN

someone once told me " no one will ever treat you better than you treat yourself. So SPOIL yourself"

Many people, in seeking out love, tend to look outward rather than inward. Yet falling in love with yourself can be just as wonderful an experience as falling in love with someone else. While the idea of falling in love with ourselves may be perceived as conceited or selfish, choosing to fall in love with who you are is a powerful act of self-love. When you fall in love with yourself, you can't help but experience a wonderful sense of discovery. You begin to look at yourself again through fresh eyes, becoming more attentive to the little details that make you so unique. Once you discover how much there is about you to fall in love with, you can't help but want to treat yourself as lovingly and respectfully as you would treat anyone who is special to you. You start to give to yourself more because you become more attentive to your own needs and desires. Choosing to fall in love with yourself is a very personal process that takes time. There is no magic wand you can wave to make this just happen. But there is the magic of your intention and the power of your actions, whether you are taking the time to do the activities you like, speaking to and treating yourself with respect, taking inventory of all your wonderful qualities and accomplishments, or nurturing yourself with plenty of rest and self-care. When you fall in love with yourself, you begin to see yourself more positively, appreciate your unique outlook on life, and treat yourself in a more nurturing way. In loving yourself, you are acknowledging that you are special and deserving of love. Best of all, you are giving yourself one of the greatest gifts you have to give another. You are giving yourself the gift of your love. daily om

TODAY'S LESSON 7.22.09 ACCEPTING COMPLIMENTS

Has someone ever paid you a compliment and your response was "shut up" " or "whatever" ??

Why do we find it so hard to belive that someone would give us an honest compliment but we are so quick to believe others critique??

here is what I learned today.

Receiving a Gift with GraceAccepting Compliments
Many of us find it difficult to accept compliments but easy to believe the slightest criticism. Today, right now, let’s make a choice to fully accept compliments as we would a gift. Sincere compliments are gifts of praise. They are kudos given for wise choices or accomplishments or perhaps for just letting your light shine. There is no reason not to accept the gift of a kind word, but some of us argue against them, even giving reasons why they aren’t true.If we visualize the energy of a compliment, we would see beautiful, shining, positive energy being sent from the giver. That energy, if accepted graciously, would brighten our personal energy field. Our gratitude then returns to the giver as warm, fuzzy, glowing energy, completing an even circuit of good feelings. But if we reject a compliment, what could have been a beautiful exchange becomes awkward and uncomfortable, making it a negative experience instead. Misplaced modesty can ruin the joy of sharing this connection with another person. But we can accept a compliment and still be modest by simply saying “thank you.” However, if compliments are rejected due to a lack of self-esteem, then the first step would be to start believing good things about yourself. Try giving yourself compliments in the mirror. Beyond the initial feelings of silliness, you will notice how good it feels and can watch the smile it puts on your face. The next step would be to see how it feels to gi! ve compliments to others. Notice how great you feel when you’ve made another person’s face brighten and how differently you feel when the gift you’ve offered is rejected. Having experienced all sides, you will be ready to play along fully and willingly. We are our harshest critics. When we accept compliments, we are reminded that others see us through different eyes. All living beings crave positive attention, and we all deserve to have positive energy shared with us. Perhaps if we happily and gratefully accept compliments, we will give others permission to do so as well. Daily Om

KARMA-MAKE SURE YOURS IS GOOD TODAY. ( AND EVERY DAY)

have you experienced a situation where you felt your Karma was working in your favor? or experienced something negative and thought "again? still paying for bad karma?"

In an attempt to bring myself better Karma, I started giving other people Good Karma and Double Luckiness. I'm just giving away left and right. And I have to say on a few occasions, I felt it has been given right back to me when I needed it .

Long story short, I made my own business cards, but I call them Double Luckiness Cards, or Karma Cards.

And they say just that on them. They also have a few inspirationa, positive quotes, secretes about The Secrete ( which I am obsessed with) and they tell you h ow awesome you are.

You can keep them or you can pass them on and receive 3 fold Double Luckiness.

I'm on my way to take some pictures of the beautiful city I live in today and pass out some Double Luckiness, because I really need some lately!

KARMA QUOTE FOR THE DAY:

“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” Wayne Dyer

Lesson For Today: IT'S ALL ABOUT YOUR ENERGY

UNDISTRACTED ENERGY:

Have you ever been in the presense of someone and gotten a really good "vibe" from them, and decided you wanted to spend more time with them? Or have you evern been around someone and you felt they gave off strage energy, or you felt their negativity was "rubbing off on you" and it made you form an opinion about them and maybe you decided you didn't want to be around that person??

What kindof energy are you trying to put into the universe? What do you want people to feel when they are in yoru presence?

Feel free to share your comments about experiences you have had or the energy you are trying to leave in in your footsteps.. xoxo

Here is what I leared today.
Undistracted EnergyPure Thoughts
If we make no effort at all, our thoughts usually scatter in a vast array of directions. They start and stop and move in surprising ways from one second to the next. If we try to follow our thoughts without controlling them, we will be amazed at how truly inconsistent they are. Yet, if we apply our minds to a specific task, especially one that interests us, they gather together and allow us to focus our attention, creating great power and energy. This is what is known as pure thought, because it is undistracted. The law of attraction—like attracts like—influences all energy, including our thoughts, and this is what makes pure thought so potent. Our undistracted thoughts create a powerful magnet that draws similar energy into our vibrational field. As a result, the longer we are able to hold positive thoughts in our minds, the more powerful the positive energy around us becomes. We don’t need to focus on action and controlling so much when we are surrounded by energy that draws what we want toward us. We can simply respond to the opportunities that naturally come our way. When this is the essence of our experience, we can go with the flow, knowing that we will be okay. If pure thought is a body, it is our emotions that supply the heart that can really bring it to life. Our thoughts and feelings exist in relation to one another, and they form a feedback loop through which they communicate and empower each other. When we hold a thought in our mind without being distracted, we have achieved pure thought. When we have a positive emotional response to that thought, we enable it to dance and move and breathe itself into existence
Daily Om

Today's Horoscopes 7.21.09

Aquarius Daily Horoscope
A desire to support others as they pursue the goals important to them can help you connect with the people you care about in an entirely new way. While you may have many pressing concerns vying for your attention, it is likely that you will focus wholeheartedly on the affairs of individuals close to you. This level of dedication can touch their souls and help them to understand that you aim to be more than a fair weather companion. As your loved ones learn to what degree they can rely on you today, any doubt they might have had regarding your feelings will likely vanish, and the satisfaction you feel as a result can bolster your spirits for quite some time. We guarantee the strength of our personal relationships when we make it a point to be there for the people who need us even when we would rather be doing something else. There will inevitably be times in our lives during which we do not feel particularly eager to put aside our own concerns to focus on the affairs of our friends and family. But the sacrifices we make do not go unnoticed by the people we care about. They see that we have given them the gift of our attention, and are moved by the gratitude they feel to do the same for us. However unpalatable the duty before us, we can be sure that our conscientiousness will have a positive impact on our relationships. As you help the important people in your life find fulfillment today, your disquiet will fade gracefully into the background

Libra Daily Horoscope
An assertive mood will likely serve you well today as you compose your day's agenda and endeavor to address your many responsibilities. You may begin your journey with an attitude of confidence, but the challenges you meet as the day wears on can have a abating influence on your positive outlook. Holding on to as much of your confidence and optimism as you can may help you stay focused so that you can move from task to task without losing your enthusiasm. Consider ways in which you might challenge yourself today, as the excitement you feel when you realize that your potential has expanded will likely quell any misgivings you may have. We are capable of accomplishing so much more than we ever dreamed possible, but this truth hinges on our willingness to challenge ourselves by exploring the outer limits of our skills and talents. While we may feel safer utilizing those aptitudes that have already proven themselves useful in our inner and outer world endeavors, our achievements do not then help us to grow beyond that which we already are. To evolve, we must push ourselves past the limitations we have previously held ourselves to so that we better understand our larger purpose. Our forays into the unknown will not always be successful, but the knowledge we gain through our efforts will be a part of our lives forevermore. Your self-assurance will flourish today as you come to realize that your innate potential is greater than you ever imagined

Aries Daily Horoscope
Intensity may define your world today, and you may be unsure as to whether it is coming from inside of you or originating in some outside source. Personal and outer-world issues can leave you feeling wound up and discontented because you likely cannot accept that your life is changing at a rapid pace. You may need, more than anything else, the comfort of isolation. Even if your seclusion only lasts a short time, you can capitalize on the peace and quiet it offers by reaching deeply into your soul to discover why your emotions are in an uproar. You may find today that time apart was precisely the remedy you needed to release your anxiety. It is easier to calm down and re-ground after enduring a stressful event when we can remove ourselves from other potential stressors by retreating into the comforting embrace of solitude. Alone, we can attune ourselves to the peace within so that the chaos without is pushed from our thoughts. Nothing interrupts us in our brief and willing isolation, ensuring that we have plenty of opportunities to work through any feelings of distress or confusion still plaguing us. However emotionally wound up we are when we first retreat from the world, the tranquility around us tends to inspire good feelings. If we are fortunate enough to have a personal altar or some other form of mini sanctuary, the transition between agitation and serenity takes place more quickly. The intensity of your feelings will be diminished today when you remove yourself from that which is causing your agitation.

Pisces Daily Horoscope
You might strongly express your beliefs today, which could be because you have set opinions on how life should be. Even though it is important to be resolute about your convictions, you might wish to reconsider how your ideas come across to others. If you assert yourself too strongly, for example, you may find that other people are less willing to listen to your thoughts today. This might be a good time to examine the reasons why you are holding onto your ideas so strongly; perhaps it is your fear of opening up to new ideas or your unwillingness to listen to what others have to say. Uncovering the reasons why your opinions bind you could make you more understanding of a multitude of new ideas. Becoming aware of the ways our ideas limit us opens us up to a greater grasp of the world around us. Particularly when we feel righteous, it is easy for us to hold on so tightly to what we feel is right. The more we hold onto such thoughts, the more restrictive our lives will become for it is only by being open and sensitive that we will gain deeper insight into ourselves, others, and life in general. Recognizing that your preconceptions are what hold you back today doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to let go of all you hold dear—it simply means that you are more responsive to things that can help you develop further.

Cancer Daily Horoscope
Today you may feel impatient about the way things are going in your life. It could seem like your work obligations are hindering your freedom, and you may feel like breaking free from your responsibilities. This edginess might be the result of your dissatisfaction with your work life. Perhaps today you can reflect on what you find frustrating in your current situation. You may want to think of your job and write down the first few words that immediately come to mind. If your associations are negative, you might then think of ways to positively change some aspect of your work environment, for example your thoughts about your duties. You could find that your impatience has more to do with the manner in which you approach your work rather than the work itself. Restlessness with our work environment often points to an underlying dissatisfaction created by our thoughts. Since we spend so much time in the workplace, we may think that our problems in life arise solely from our work obligations. In fact our frustration is usually due to our beliefs about what we are doing. If, for example, we are not engaging in work that feeds our authentic self, we will always feel impatient with our jobs. It is important for us to realize that we have the power to create a satisfying situation through our own thoughts. By understanding that your thoughts create your environment, you will have the means to find what you truly value in your work today.


Your immediate feelings of security with your current life situation today could make you feel fortunate, which may be because you have placed your trust in the universe and feel confident that you will be taken care of. Perhaps this would be a good time to express your gratitude to the universe for everything that you have in this life by setting the intention to extend your good fortune to others whom you know are in need. You might consider volunteering at a local organization or donating some of your time or resources to those who have less than you. Sharing what you have been given can be a wonderful way to demonstrate the depth of your appreciation and also could make the lives of those around you more comfortable. Giving to others allows us to show our gratitude to the universe. When we have been blessed with more than we need, we might sometimes feel that by saving what we have, we will be more secure. True certainty, however, comes from using our resources to help create a world in which everyone has what they need to live—a place where there is no fear caused by a lack of food, shelter, and love. We will find that the more we give to others, the more we will receive because we are working toward ensuring not only our own security but creating a thriving community for everyone. By sharing with others today, your actions will reflect and honor the abundance the universe has given you.

Capricorn Daily Horoscope
You could be more assertive than usual today, which might be because you feel the need to defend the rights of others. Wanting to protect other people may be due to your desire to take care of everyone around you. While this can be healthy, perhaps today you might want to reflect upon your reasons for defending others when they are capable of taking care of themselves. Should you have a need to protect someone else, you may want to think about what it is you have to gain. If you know that you will receive praise, for example, you can ask yourself why that is so important to you and maybe even think about ways in which you can give that to yourself. Understanding your motives for helping others could allow you to give them what they truly need rather than fulfilling your own desires. Having the right motives for taking care of and protecting others means that when we do help, we are doing so out of a sincere desire to foster their best interests. There are probably many times when we feel that defending people will bring us something positive, such as praise or loyalty, when in fact these things never manifest themselves in the ways we desire. Truly supporting someone means that we do so from a place of pure intent and hope for nothing in return. By thinking about your intentions today, your protection of others will come from your true heart-centered desire to help.

Scorpio Daily Horoscope
You could find it easier to accept others’ viewpoints today, which may make you more tolerant of opinions and beliefs that differ from yours. Embracing differences could be a way for you to gain a deeper sense of connection with others, which then may help you to transform your own view of the world. Perhaps today you could see a foreign film or delve into the literature of another culture in order to see your life through a different lens. You may realize that coming into contact with other ways of thinking through cross-cultural experiences can expose you to new ideas and give you enough perspective to appreciate what you most value about your own points of view and experiences. Going beyond our own cultural experiences opens our world and expands the boundaries of our belief systems. By coming into contact with ways of thinking that are different from our own, we begin to see that often we limit ourselves, for our thoughts about the world are often derived by remaining within the confines of our cultural norms. Stepping outside our culture, however, lets us see that there is so much more to the world than what we previously had realized; the beauty of our world comes from the diversity that is contained within it, which in turn gives us a greater sense of empathy and understanding of others’ differences. Opening yourself to the variety that exists in this world will bring you to a deeper acceptance of other ways of being today.

Gemini Daily Horoscope
You will likely feel wonderfully bold and confident today, and this mood can empower you to take your destiny into your own hands once and for all. Your self-assurance can serve as a constant reminder that you are a capable and talented individual who has overcome many challenges. If you have any goals that are unfulfilled because you feared failure, this can be a good time to revisit them. You will likely find that you feel more comfortable making decisions that will affect your future in a profound fashion. Should your plans go awry today, you may find it easier than usual to interpret mishaps as a sign that you need to change your tactics in some way. When we approach life with a confident and upbeat attitude, we encounter little that can rob us of our boundless enthusiasm for our goals and desires. Even when the circumstances we face are not going our way, we feel comfortable continuing to pursue our purpose with an unflappable determination that carries us forward through both delays and disillusionment. Since we believe that success is an inevitable part of our future and that we are capable of handling any obstacle the universe chooses to put in our path, we are more apt to push ourselves beyond the limitations set by our previously accomplishments. Even when we must cope with the heavy hand of failure, our self-assurance remains intact as it comes from within. The bold decisions you make today will further serve to bolster your confidence, whether their outcome proves rewarding or educational

Taurus Daily Horoscope
You may feel highly receptive to creative ideas about work, play, and life today. Since you are no doubt in a dynamic mood, your outlook on the nature of being will likely be quite fluid. If you are called upon to accept a position of leadership, you can ensure the success of the project at hand by taking your adaptable attitude with you into your authoritative assignment. Those in support positions will likely find that they can relate to you much more easily today because your command style is open-minded and tolerant where change is concerned. Remember, you can still be an effective leader while embracing many diverse ways of handling a single challenge. When we are capable of changing with the times and adapting to our circumstances as they exist in the present, we are better qualified to lead those who are still learning. People just coming into their own personally or professionally go through many changes as they pursue their purposes. We can offer the guidance and support they need when we ourselves are changeable because we can understand the transformations they must cope with as they struggle to find themselves. As we are not locked into one methodology or strategy, we are capable of walking alongside those in our charge as they explore the various ways of approaching the challenges before them so we can guide their progress. Your capacity for command will increase exponentially today as you familiarize yourself with the benefits of adaptive leadership and integrate it into your individual ideology.

Leo Daily Horoscope
Your inner- and outer-world obligations can seem like too much to bear today, even if you are responsible for no more than usual. A private and retiring mood may even compel you to seek out opportunities to engage in those activities that will allow you to be alone. Yet your desire to recharge your spirit can conflict with a busy schedule or responsibilities that simply must be fulfilled as quickly as possible. Finding the time to enjoy the pleasures of solitude today may require that you think up creative ways of fitting personal time into your schedule. Similarly, your ability to feed your soul will likely be dependent on your willingness to unite disparate aspects of your existence. We can nurture the spirit even when our personal and professional schedules are full by finding ways to integrate the practice of spirituality into our daily lives. This may seem all but impossible to do at first, especially when we feel that we do not have a single extra second at our disposal. But many elements of existence that cannot be overlooked can be incorporated into activities that promote the well-being of the soul. A life led consciously can be a form of intense devotion even though that life is full to the brim with obligations because each pursuit we undertake provides us with yet another opportunity to express ourselves as individuals and to live in accordance with our deeper values. You can recharge your spirit amidst ongoing activity today when you make an effort to address your day's duties in a soulful fashion

Virgo Daily Horoscope
You could notice that you are more irritable in your personal relationships today, which could be triggered by former emotional patterns. This might leave you feeling more argumentative. Perhaps today you may want to work on recognizing your emotions as they arise and understanding where they come from. Should you find yourself becoming frustrated with someone close to you, you can take a breath and ask yourself when you felt the same way in the past. You might come up with a situation or visual image of something that has left its mark on you. If this happens, you can gently remind yourself that those feelings were in the past, and while you may feel the same way now, you have a greater amount of wisdom and experience to release your aggravation. Understanding where our emotional triggers come from allows us to learn new ways of dealing with our feelings. It is easy to react using our old coping mechanisms. We revert back to acting to emotional stimuli in the same manner we did when we were younger. Once we begin to realize the patterns as they emerge and what sets them off, we then take a great step toward getting rid of our old dysfunctional ways. We can use our insight and the knowledge we have from our more recent experiences to rise above our feelings of irritation and establish newer and healthier patterns. By stopping yourself from reacting in your habitual ways to frustration, you will create more beneficial ways to respond to others today.

If you want a more detailed Horoscope, or information based on the exact day of your birth, let me know and I will post it for you ... hope you are having a lovely day...

7.20.09 Lesson for Today

A good friend of mine always said to avoid "double suffering" and let yourself out of situations that bring anxiety asap. she was on to something.

WHAT I LEARED TODAY ( ASK TO BE HAPPY)
Learn and Let FlowWe Don’t Need To Suffer
The idea that we have to suffer or live in poverty in order to be spiritual is an old one and can be found in the belief systems of many philosophies. Most of us carry this idea around subconsciously, and we may be holding ourselves back from financial or emotional well-being, believing that this is what we must do in order to be virtuous, spiritually awake, or feel less guilty for the suffering of others. While it’s true that there can be a spiritual purpose to experiencing a lack of material well-being, it is rarely intended to be a permanent or lifelong experience. What we are meant to find when material or emotional resources are in short supply is that there is more to our lives than the physical realm. Intense relationships and material abundance can distract us from the subtler realm of the spirit, so a time of deficiency can be spiritually awakening. However, once we recognize the realm of spirit, and remember to hold it at the center of our lives, there is no reason to dwell in poverty or emotional isolation. In fact, once our connection to spirit is fully intact, we feel so compelled to share our abundance that lack becomes a thing of the past. If you find that you are experiencing suffering in some area of your physical life, perhaps your spirit is asking you to look deeper in your search for what you want. For example, if you want money so that you can experience the feeling of security but money keeps eluding you, your spirit may be asking you to understand that security is not to be found through money. Security comes from an unshakable connection to your soul. Once you make that connection, money will probably flow more easily into your life. If relationships elude you, your spirit may be calling you to recognize that the love you seek is not to be found in another person. And yet, ironically, once you find the love, your true love may very well appear. If you feel stuck in suffering to live a spiritual life, try to spend some time writing about it. The root of the problem will appear and it may not be what you expected. Remember, the Universe wants you to be happy

My Faves From the Art Festival. B.D.Orr

BDOrr is from Chicago and now lives in Arizona. he does not have a website but for more info on this work you can email me at love_lia_inc_06@yahoo.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Jim Morreau

This artist was another one of my favorites.

Jim Morreau has had an affinity for art his whole life. He grew up in Charleston, SC, where he received private art instruction as a youth. His family later moved to Paducah, Kentucky, where Jim won art awards in high school and sold pop poster art to other students. Jim graduated from University of Louisville law school in 1980 and practiced law in Louisville for 25 years. In 2006, Jim decided to leave the practice of law and pursue a full time art career. His work has been accepted into numerous juried art shows and exhibitions in Kentucky, Michigan, Cincinnati and Chicago, where his paintings have sold well.

Check out Jim and the rest of his bio and works at www.jamesmorreau.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Tina Primer

I really loved these original paintings by Tina Primer.

She was the only one at the festival with this unique style. Her work is happy fand bright.

In 2008 Tina introduce a new style to the art community.

Stipple art.

She paints on smaller canvases with acrylic paint, and then covers the painting with thousands of little dots using multi-colored paint pens.

This process is how she gives each painting a mosaic look

Check her out at www.tinaprimerart.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Michael Kuseske

This was the only image I could get for this artitst.

In person these original painting were vivid and energizing.

Check him out at wwwmichaelkuseskepaintings.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Eric Nye

This is the work of Eric Nye.

Check out more of his work and his mothers at www.nye-art.com or www.ericnye.et

My FAVE From the Art Festival. Rafael

I couldnt get any images to post of this artist's work. but i absolutely LOVED it.

It was a beautiful, dramatic mix of art deco and japanese.

Please check him out at rafaelindesign.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Mila Ryk

I loved these. They were sexy, imaginitive and beautiful.

Check out more at milaryk.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Marla Fry

These are original hand painted vintage and antique windows by Marla Fry.

These arenot only beautiful but are doign their part in leaving a smaller footprint on this planet. Marla usesvintage and antique windows she finds in dumpsters, junk shops and alleyways giving them a second chance at a lovely life.. The images are painted on the back of the glass and shine thru ...

These were happy, wishful, wimsical and shabby chic.

You can view more of her original work at marlafrywindows

My FAVE From the Art Festival. Presteau

This was my favorite exhibit at the festival.

The Pictures do not do this artist justice. This is the work of Presteau. Eric Lee and his wife ( I'm sorry but I didn't get her name today) paint on the back of these enormous glass plates and seal them with a technique they developed ( which is top secrete, I wanted to take a class and they politely laughed and declined )

The Art is glossy, luminous and gorgeous in person.

They make one of kind decorative pieces, table tops, counter tops and lots of other things. Definitely check out their website at presteau.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Melvin McGee

Melvin McGee believes in the importance of art in our every day lives and strives to express freedom through his creative passion. He is fascinated with the process of bringing an image to life from the depths of the unknown. Often he believes that he is just a hand that is guided by something larger than him self. His unique style can be categorized under surrealism, or hand painted dreams. But it’s McGee’s hard working ethics and past experiences that have had the most influences on him.

You Can View More Of Melvin's Work at melvinmcgee.com

My Faves From the Art Festival. Zhou Yu

Zhou Yu began his artistic career at a very early age and spent almost every freemoment of his childhood experimenting with this artisticexpression. After a long period refining his craft, he graduated from the Beijing Central Academy of Art &Design 1987 with a Master's Degree in art. To further develophis skills, he studied and copied original paintings of old masters, most notable among them the meticulously planned and finely detailed works of Ingres. He instructed at the Tianjin Academy of Fine Arts during the nearly twenty years before he came to the United States, but here he has been afforded the opportunity to paint whathe loves without constraint. His labors to incisively, vividly and realistically depict a subject's soulfulattributes in his works. To date, he has painted more than thousand paintings in the United States. As you browse through his pages, you will be attracted by the vigorous nature of his works. His paintings reflect a carefully effected balance between objective reality and the manifold nature of his subjects' personalities captured in the timeless moment.

You Can View Zhou's Work at zhouyufinarts.com

International Fine Ar Festival

Today is the last day. In Buffalo Grove. Until 5pm

I'll be there with my dog Lil Pig and my Momz.

WIll have updates on all the cool art and amazing artists when I get back.

( not going to buy anything because I have too much "stuff" already) Just goign to appreciate and show props.

xoxo, Lia

HOROSCOPES SUNDAY 7.19.09. It's Going To Be A Good Day

Aquarius Daily Horoscope
A laidback mood can be a sign of exhaustion today. If you find yourself unable to concentrate on the tasks you have laid out for yourself, you may be tempted to put everything aside so that you can spend some time indulging in recreational pursuits. However, if your schedule is full and you feel an obligation to address your obligations, procrastination can make you feel even worse about the manner in which you are using your time today. You may be able to relax while still working through your agenda by prioritizing your roster of duties and focusing only on those tasks that are vital to your wellbeing. Periods of procrastination are often indicative of an unfulfilled need to rest and relax in between duties. We tend to move from obligation to obligation without stopping to breathe because we have so much we have to do and a limited amount of time at our disposal. When we become overwhelmed by our overfull schedules, we tend to feel tired and unfocused, and the resultant inability to concentrate appears to be nothing more than irresponsibility. However, it is when we are most prone to laziness that we should examine our agendas because we may discover that we have undertaken far more than any one person should take on in a day. As we put realistic limitations on our schedules, we become better able to focus on whatever needs doing. You will be less likely to procrastinate today when the tasks you have assigned yourself are manageable.

Libra Daily Horoscope
You may feel generous of heart and eager to share your time and other talents with others today. A feeling of confidence and security could cause you to realize how abundant your life is and how much you have to offer. Now is a wonderful time to donate your time or skills to an organization that could benefit from them. You also may find yourself wanting to share more of what you have with friends and family. You could make the most of your feelings today by being generous with yourself. Ask yourself what it is that you need and give it to yourself. You may want wear your heart on your sleeve and spread your good feelings with others. Our generosity can brighten someone’s day or change the world. Offering someone a smile can lift someone’s spirit or light up a room. Our generous gestures can touch someone’s heart or inspire others to also be generous. Each of us has so much to offer the planet. Our generosity allows us to share our gifts and talents and resources with others. It is our generosity that makes it easy for us to forgive another when our feelings have been hurt or someone has made a mistake. Generosity spreads love and abundance. Be generous today, and you will make the world a better place.

Pisces Daily Horoscope
You may feel protective of your resources be they physical, emotional, or material, which may mean that you will go about things prudently today. While it is important to be aware of your limits, perhaps reframing the way you view what you have at your disposal could help you recognize that you are only constrained by your thoughts. Just being able to see that it is often your perception of your energetic resources and that reality might be quite different can make it easier to accept that there is much that is abundant about your life. Perhaps if you can take a few minutes to look around you today and make a mental note of everything you possess both internally and externally, you might transform your fear of not having enough into a feeling of gratitude about how much you truly have. Once we recognize the plethora that exists in our lives we will see that there is nothing that we lack. It is in our nature to always strive for more—more material things, greater understanding, or enlightenment. When we spend our lives focused on this striving, our tendency is to hoard our resources and view our lives in terms of what we don’t have. Focusing on the negative, however, bogs us down into a never-ending spiral of fear and caution. By turning your thoughts toward everything you have been blessed with today, you will realize how rich you are.

Aries Daily Horoscope
You might be listening in carefully to conversations today which could mean that you are giving your full attention to what you hear. Approaching your interactions thoughtfully may be a wonderful way for you to truly tune into what people are saying – not just to what is happening on the surface of the conversation, but also to the deeper emotional gist of the words you hear. Listening with your heart by imagining that is not your ears, but your heart center that is receiving the sound vibrations of the words could help you to access this more profound level of conversation. Doing so may bring greater meaning to your interactions today as well as make it easier for you to respond in a genuine and heartfelt way to the emotional content of what is being said. Our hearts are power tools for listening to others. So often in conversations we might be preoccupied by what we wish to say or by projecting our own hopes or fears onto another person’s words. Consciously using our hearts, however, allows us to access a much more real part of ourselves – a part that is both receptive and willing to listen to the deeper message that is being said. In essence, our hearts let us connect to others on a soul level, taking us beyond mere words into the realm of truer and more honest communication. Using your heart center to listen will bring a more meaningful dimension to your interactions today.

Cancer Daily Horoscope
Introversion can become the defining trait of your personality today, making you feel slightly discomfited when in the presence of individuals whose company you usually enjoy. You should endeavor to draw back from the society of your peers without feeling guilty, however, as willing isolation can be a wonderful tonic for a heart and mind subject to regular stressors. Once alone, try to focus on pursuits that allow you to learn more about yourself or those that help you relax. The more you enjoy the time you spend in solitude today, the more potent and lasting the effects of your time in seclusion will no doubt be. Solitude is seldom a lonely state when we recognize that it is a temporary condition that affords us the peace and freedom we need to reconnect with the individuals we are within. Many people fear the quietude of isolation because it feeds their unconscious fears of alienation and segregation. Yet it is only when we retreat into the welcoming embrace of willing seclusion that we are afforded the conditions necessary for successful self reflection. Away from the numerous distractions heaped upon us by the rigors of modern existence, we can delve deeply into our souls to rediscover all those values and ideals we left by the wayside as we concentrated on our worldly affairs and ambitions. When you indulge your introverted yearning for solitude today, you will find you can once again attuned yourself to aspects of your individuality wholly overshadowed by your day-to-day concerns

Sagittarius Daily Horoscope
Feelings of loneliness can hound you today, and these can convince you that you are alone in the world if you are not careful to dispel them. Should you feel isolated or disconnected from your network of support, consider why you no longer feel the weight of their continuing presence in your life. It is likely that the people who cared for you yesterday still care for you today, which means that you should assume they have not deserted you. Reaching out to your loved ones can help you bridge the gap that exists between you, even if the only contact you have is a short conversation that re-establishes your connection. As we move from one phase of life into the next, we should endeavor to remember that being alone does not necessarily mean that we have been abandoned by our loved ones. People can care deeply for each other though they are divided from one another by time and space. If we allow ourselves to question the strength of the affection others feel for us simply because we have not seen or heard from them for some time, we will never be able to trust that our friends and family still love us. When we feel disconnected, we should do all we can to reach out to the important people in our lives, yet we should also believe in their continuing devotion even when we are unable to make satisfactory contact. Your loneliness will vanish today when you remind yourself that you still reside in the hearts of all those who care for you

Capricorn Daily Horoscope
You may feel strongly driven to help others meet their personal and professional goals today, and to accomplish this, you will likely be on the lookout for opportunities to lend people your assistance. Those on the receiving end of your kindnesses may be impressed by your unselfish and generous attitude. However, before you bask in the praise you subsequently receive, consider the motivation you are following today. You will likely discover that being helpful is its own reward and that you would prefer not to receive any special thanks for your efforts. Explaining this may be challenging, so try to move on quickly after you have accomplished specific tasks. Everyone in the world finds themselves in need of assistance occasionally, and there will be times during which we are equipped to give others the help they require. When we do what we can unselfishly, without thinking about our contribution in terms of how we might be rewarded, we serve as an inspiration to those who are unsure as to whether they, too, have anything to offer. The people who bear witness to our generosity will have concrete proof that the limitations that might otherwise impact our capabilities have no effect on our capacity to help others. We do what needs doing even when we doubt ourselves because we have chosen to make helping those in need a priority in our lives. As you lend others your assistance today, you will show people as of yet unsure of themselves that every contribution is valuable.


Scorpio Daily Horoscope
You might feel like making plans that take every possibility into consideration today. This feeling of restraint could be the result of your desire to guard yourself against the unpredictable and anticipate every scenario that might arise. Allowing yourself to expect the unexpected may help you find the balance between having control over a situation and being spontaneous. Perhaps when making plans today you might picture your plans going awry. As you imagine this, you can ask yourself if you would still enjoy the company you are with and your activities even though things may not go your way. Thinking about your plans in this way could be a way for you to realize that even if things are not perfect, there can be wonderful and exciting surprises in unexpected events, particularly if you are with people you care about. Being flexible lets us experience new and remarkable ways of living. Sometimes we want to play it safe and safeguard everything we do, which can leave us feeling limited and restricted. If we let ourselves become open to change, however, we are more likely to uncover things that we might not have imagined could happen. Instead of feeling constrained we begin to realize the limitless possibilities that are always waiting for us each day of our lives. Striking a balance between what you want to happen and what really does happen today will make your life richer and full of amazing chance encounters that you will value forever.


Gemini Daily Horoscope
You may be quite wary of the suggestions others offer you today as their motives for doing so will likely elude you. If you feel impressionable, you may worry that your tendency to respond favorably to counsel will leave you vulnerable. However, consider that most of the individuals in the various spheres of your existence likely have no intention of steering you wrong. Trust in people's good intentions today and you may be surprised to discover that they are simply showing you a kindness by sharing their opinions with you. Whether you choose to follow their advice will likely be immaterial to them on an emotional level. We are not vulnerable because we, as human beings, are somewhat susceptible to the suggestions of others. When we surround ourselves with positive people whose intentions are pure, the advice they offer will nearly always be given in the spirit of generosity. If we feel strongly driven to take certain counsel to heart, we should not worry that we are being unduly influenced by the individuals with whom we share our environments. Rather, we should thank them for being so kind as to provide us with an alternate viewpoint so that we can draw from a larger base of experience. It is only when we feel pressured to follow a certain path that we should question others' motives, as those who wish us well will want us to proceed in the manner right for us. You will receive a wealth of good advice today when you learn to accept counsel without misgivings.


Taurus Daily Horoscope
Your perception of the world around you will likely be quite logical today, and you may find that you cannot help but view your own circumstances in a rational light. This mind-set can serve you well as the more emotionally charged aspects of your survival, such as finances and family, will likely have little power to influence your choices. Your response to discord or confusion will likely be down to earth, providing you with the peace of mind you need to think carefully about the many avenues open to you. If you stay sensible even during those times when your emotions threaten to overwhelm your calm today, you may find that you can see the most practical course of action quite clearly. Adopting a rational outlook where our circumstances are concerned ensures that our ability to judge our position is never clouded by the intensity of emotion we experience when coping with the challenges before us. While we may feel strongly about the manner in which specific situations are unfolding, our response to these feelings will more than likely be centered on facts. Consequently, our ability to recognize the best way to proceed will be heightened because we can view the events happening around us with a logical eye. As we begin to understand how our circumstances in the present will affect us in the future, we can formulate practical solutions that allow us to address individual elements of our circumstances. Today your choice to maintain a rational attitude during periods of upheaval will help you think practically about what to do next.

Leo Daily Horoscope
You could feel like being a part of group activities, and this may make you feel more supportive and accommodating toward others today. It might seem that by being cooperative you may be more able to get more things accomplished than by working alone. Making a point to include other people in your decisions and on projects could pave the way for greater creativity in both your work and social activities. Becoming attuned to your ability to understand and sense the needs of those around you may make everything you do with others more effective, friendly, and interesting. Listening closely to others’ opinions as well as giving praise could enhance your ability to communicate and lend to the success of everything that you collaborate on. Learning to work with and encourage others leads to greater achievements. Using the talents of those around us lets us draw from a multitude of sources of creative energy. Having such a group together means that we channel not only our own gifts from the universe but those of everyone involved, which makes our talents all the more beneficial for everyone. Furthermore, if we make the effort to be more effective in our group communications though greater attentiveness, openness, and understanding, we contribute to a positive group dynamic, which makes the group much more successful as a whole. By supporting and cooperating with others today, your communication will be filled with respect and mutual encouragement, allowing you to achieve more than you would have ever imagined


Virgo Daily Horoscope
The motivation you feel as you mull over your ambitions will likely be incredibly strong today. Your need to attain what attracts you can overshadow the dismay you feel when circumstances do not unfold as you expected. You can use this heightened drive to your advantage by channeling it into your efforts at home and at work as it will likely feed your stamina and strength as you struggle to make headway. If you choose to initiate a new project today, your commitment to the task at hand and your enterprising attitude toward hard work can give you the advantage you need to accomplish almost anything. There is little we cannot do when we are motivated to succeed because we are willing to take whatever actions are necessary to bring about the results we so ardently wish to achieve. It is this motivation born of inspiration and self-trust that carries us forward, even when our life paths seem too challenging to bear. We are never without some course of action open to us because we recognize that we always have a choice, even if the only choice we can make is to bide our time patiently until opportunity once again appears before us. Novelty cannot faze us, and we feel comfortable initiating new projects because we understand that there is merit in failure just as there is satisfaction in success. Your enterprising spirit will guide you forward today, helping you overcome the obstacles that block your path without ever losing your optimism

KARMA - GET YOURSELF SOME

BRING YOURSELF SOME DOUBLE LUCKINESS. IT WORKS!!

"Like gravity, karma is so basic we often don't even notice it. Karma moves in two directions. If we act virtuously, the seed we plantwill result in happiness. If we act nonvirtuously, suffering results"- Sakyong Mipham


Do Something Selfless. Wish Something Great For Someone Else and Get Back 2 Fold

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny

if anyone knows who is responsible for this quote, let me know.

Leave a comment about something selfless you did lately.

See Your Future

What I Learned Today:
Make It Happen

Since you are observing what is happening now, you may feel like you can understand what might come to pass later.

Having a farsighted view of your life can be a way for you to lay the groundwork today for your dreams of tomorrow, and you might try to consider what impact your actions could have on the future.

One way to do this can be to think about how complex your life is at present. You may notice that you have more than you need or that you tend to schedule more than you can do.

If you can think about making your life simpler by using less and doing less, you may find that your vision of the future becomes much clearer.While we can’t see into the future, we can design our lives in a way so that our actions can positively affect the world.

Although the future holds a lot of uncertainty for us and may even cause us to fear what we don’t know, if we can envision our lives as being filled with the things we desire that are deeper—good health, fulfilling relationships, a greater connection with spirit—we can put our intention out into the universe and will be more likely to manifest our dreams. By taking steps to align your present life with your future hopes today, you will transform your vision into something extraordinary

7.17.09 our hopes and dreams are the universe whispering to us

Our Hopes and Dreams are the Universe Whispering to Us.

This is my favorite quote of the day.

How beautiful is that??

What are you hoping for today?

What are you dreaming about?

All you have to do is ask and it can be yours.

Are you dreaming or hoping for something and not sure who to manifest it into reality???

Post your comment or question and I will help set you on the right path.

xoxo, Lia

Inspiration for Friday 7.17.09. Ask and You Shall Receive

What I learned today : ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
( ever hear the phrashe "ask and you shall receive" )

Most people don’t always fully realize that we all have within us the ability to cocreate our lives with the universe.

Many of us are taught to accept what we are given and not even to dream of anything more.

But our hopes and dreams are the universe whispering to us, planting an idea of what’s possible while directing us toward the best use of our gifts.

The universe truly wants to give us our hearts’ desires, but we need to be clear about what they are and ask for them.

To ask for something does not mean to beg or plead from a place of lack or unworthiness.
It’s like placing an order—we don’t need to beg the salesperson for what we want or prove to them that we deserve to have it. It is their job to give us what we ask for; we only have to tell them what we want.

Once we have a clear vision of what we desire, we simply step into the silent realm where all possibilities exist and let our desires be known.

Whatever methods we use to become still, it is important that we find the quiet space between our thoughts. From that still and quiet place, we can announce our intentions to the pure energy of creation.

By imagining all the details from every angle, including scent, color, and how it would feel to have it, we design our dreams to our specifications.

Similar to dropping a pebble into a pond, the ripples created by our thoughts travel quickly from this place of stillness, echoing out into the world to align and orchestrate all the necessary details to bring our desires into manifestation.

Before leaving this wonderful space to come back to the world, release any attachment to the outcome and express gratitude.

By doing this daily, we focus our thoughts and our energy while regularly mingling with the essence that makes it possible to build the life of our dreams.

Todays lesson

Most of us are adept at seeing the big picture. Caught up in the hectic pace of modern life, we feel compelled to immediately distinguish what is important from what is not. The assessment is an easy one to make when we are mired in the daily grind容verything relating to success seems significant and everything else seems comparatively trivial. But what is most precious in this life cannot be measured in affluence or influence. The truly noteworthy events in our lives are often the least momentous yet the most wonderful. They are the magical moments in which we are simply awestruck by the wonderment of life. Though our perception of magical moments may be blocked by worldly concerns, our days are filled with such moments. To experience them fully, we need only open ourselves to their existence. Magical moments are not measured by the composition of an experience but rather by our reaction to it. Since such moments come and go quickly, they should be consciously savored and noted. They stick with us only when we recognize the impact they have had on our mood, our day, and our lives. In such instances, we may find we are suddenly and blissfully aware that we have evolved or that those around us have changed in some positive way. We may stand in awe at the beauty of a familiar object or derive great pleasure from an everyday activity. Or we may witness incidents of supreme kindness and compassion that do not directly involve us yet touch our hearts intensely. Nature is a constant source of magical moments. When we cherish such occurrences, we condition ourselves to take note of them when they happen and appreciate the value they add to our lives. An idea for increasing your awareness of the magical moments in your life is to record all such happenings in a journal kept for that purpose. As these moments are personal, your journal can be a documentation of small joys or a testimony of grand revelations. You may begin to notice that there is more magic in your life than you initially imagined. In striving to make the most of each of these magical moments, you grant yourself permission to experience new levels of joy, surprise, tenderness, and personal fulfillment